If you are a man, looking to join an Adult Dating Site , we strongly recommend you read up about the sites you are looking into, read some reviews and do some basic homework before you spend any money on them. There is a problem endemic to adult dating which if you are not wary, could distract you from what you are supposed to be doing (ie. meeting women in real life) while emptying your wallet at the same time.
The problem is that some women are not actually signed up to these websites to meet you in real life. Rather, they are looking to meet you online, so they can get you to sign up to their own website, which is a paid site requiring you to spend money to continue you association with them. These dating direct women are always attractive, they are always tempting, and they are always convincing.
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So the scenario runs like this. You join up to an adult dating site and have look around. When you see some girls you’d like to meet you pay the dating site fee so you can contact them. You come back a day or 2 later and some of these hot girls have gotten back to you. GREAT! You reply back, and your reply is followed up by a request to meet them at an alternative site, for which they’ll give you their personalized link.
If you choose to see where this is going, you’ll follow the link and visit the new site. At some stage on the new site, you’ll be required to create a membership. Then if you want to view the girl’s profile, you’ll need to upgrade. Then all of a sudden you’ll be introduced to a new world of web cams, where you can chat to a range of very attractive dating singles personals in various stages of undress. This will all be pay per view though, so each time you talk to one of these girls, you’ll be paying for it.
Then a month down the track, the original dating site will charge you for the next month of their service. At this point you will realize that you got no value out of the last month, as the girls who got back to you never have met you. In fact all they did is distract you away from meeting real women at the dating site. Further you will realize that you have spent way more than you budgeted as you will have paid them to talk to you on their web cams. And finally (and hopefully by now) you’ll realize these dating singles personals never actually want to meet you. So its all lost time and money.
This type of thing happens at most adult dating sites. However, the extent of this problem varies greatly from site to site. That is why our number 1 tip for avoiding this issue is to investigate a few sites before you join them. Only join reputable sites where this problem is less prevalent.
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This entry was posted on Tuesday, August 31st, 2010 at 5:47 am and is filed under adult dating, dating direct.
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