Concentrate on the girl
Sometimes the pressure just gets too much. For whatever reason you feel yourself finding it harder and harder to enjoy the task at hand and you find your “mini me” just isn’t willing to join in the fun. Whatever you do don’t panic. This is a very common situation and one that has a simple remedy. Thankfully with the modern interest in giving pleasure to a single girls you can forget jumping straight to it and instead concentrate on giving her pleasure first. This does two things. Firstly, it helps you concentrate on something other than your performance and gives your little soldier time to think about joining in. Secondly, it helps your girl think of you as someone who’s kind, caring and great in bed which helps remove any yobbish image you may currently possess.
Don’t drink alcohol
Alcohol is one of those quick fix solutions that people turn to for an extra boost of Dutch courage. The problem is, the nature of the drink often means that it can be a contributing cause to issues, which can give you a failure to perform adequately in bed. Although a minor amount of alcohol may be a blessing it soon becomes necessary to drink more and more to achieve the same sex personals effect and eventually it becomes more of a hindrance than a blessing. Get used to getting down without the drink and you’ll appreciate it more in the long run.
Stay Peaceful During Sex
Don’t worry about mistakes
People that are experienced in the bedroom are well aware how much of a messy affair intercourse can actually be. Wet spots, smells and painful positions are all key elements of what we call lovemaking. If something goes wrong, don’t stress or worry about what your sex personals partner thinks. Instead smile and laugh over it with her. It’s amazing how easily a smile puts someone else at ease. If you find that the person you’re with is giving any kind of bad reactions it’s probably out of fear themselves. Once they see you’re ok with it, they should lighten up incredibly and both of you will find it easier to stay relaxed during sex.
The bedroom is the one place that men feel they should truly rein domain over yet unfortunately, as with any portion of your castle, without the experience to control it completely it can soon become more of a liability than an asset. With a little bit of practice you should easily find yourself a bedroom master in no time, allowing you to stay relaxed during sex. The important thing to remember is to be careful not to allow any early minor mishaps to develop into long-term fears. Mistakes happen all the time and unfortunately not every dating singles woman you meet will be the most understanding.
For the most part, however, you should find that any problem encountered in the bedroom can be overcome with a smile. Most dating singles partners are not only sympathetic to your inexperience but also attracted by it as they get to play the role of teacher. Keeping your cool is the most important thing and hopefully with the tips listed above you should easily be able to handle any issue. With a little luck it’ll be alright on the night.
Europe’s leading expert on attraction, Adam Lyons is internationally regarded as one of the top 3 specialists on seduction. He teaches seminars across the globe and regularly writes articles for leading men’s magazines and national newspapers. Lyons specialises in teaching attraction, social dynamics, and how one can improve their dating life.
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