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Sex Tonight – Stay Peaceful During Sex Part: 1
Friday, October 1st, 2010

The art of making love is supposedly one of the most beautiful and enjoyable acts someone can perform. It gives incredible pleasure and is a wonderful feeling of closeness between two people. We’ve all seen the movies that set the standard for how we should behave. You all know the scene:  the man gently eases his sex tonight partner down while looking at her fondly. He then confidently and calmly guides her through the processes. He is a confident lover, someone whom she can really lose herself to. It’s almost picture perfect, with the small beads of sweat, mood lighting and music.  Yes, you would almost be fooled into thinking that’s how sex is every time.

The reality, of course, is far different. Rather, it is often a sweaty race to the finish in a pitch-black room while the only music being produced is coming from random, awkward bodily noises perforated with the odd grunt here and there. Unfortunately if you don’t have experience to rely on you can easily be fooled into thinking that you have to live up to this movie, dream-like image.  Coupled with a perception that there is more pressure on men to perform like amateur porn stars, it can make the entire concept of sex tonight seem worth it. Even if you do manage to get all of the positions and mood correctly configured, chances are that the amount of stress you’ve put yourself under will kill your ability to rise to the occasion and perform. The good news is that there are a few simple tricks you can use to help yourself relax during sex. Enjoy.

Stay Peaceful During Sex

Stay Peaceful During Sex

Don’t pre-plan

The more you think about something the more you enable yourself to worry, fret and stress about it. Don’t over-plan anything; allow things to happen naturally. Following a great dinner with specifically purchased mood music and rose petals on the bed may seem like a good speed dating idea at the time, in reality you’re putting far too much pressure onto a situation. Don’t stress yourself over what may or may not happen. The more thought you give to the situation, the more likely you are to struggle to relax. Instead just enjoy the night and allow it to unfold itself.

Be open about your experience

The idea that women only want a strong confident man who will lead them in the bedroom isn’t always true. In fact, many of them like the idea of guiding a man through his first experiences in the bedroom. So many match maker people make the mistake of feeling that they have to exaggerate their experiences in order to impress a woman into sleeping with her. In reality they would probably find it much easier to get with someone if they came clean about their experiences and were to let the girl have her wicked way with him.

Music

We have an amazing ability to associate one match maker situation with another, and music is a useful tool in creating positive associations that we want to reproduce. You may already have certain songs which put you into a positive state of mind.  This is the kind of music you listen to in order to prep yourself for a good night on the town, fun driving music, or even a set of songs you play when you work out in the gym. Whatever the occasion, playing this kind of music before entering a stressful situation can help you achieve a generally more positive sense of being and make it easier to undertake stressful situations in a more confident manner.


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