Cheating Facts Between Men And Women – Flirting is not always so innocent. All too frequently, playing with fire results in cheating, which, in its turn, brings unpleasant outcomes. Ragnar Beer, a famous psychologist from Goettingen, organized a research, interviewing 2600 people of both sexes who cheated on their significant other at least once. The results were shocking: most of the cheating men and women over 80% to be exact loved their partners.

1. Playing Around Lasts Longer Than a One Night Stand

The research destroyed the myth of traditional infidelity as a one-night stand. Only 12% of cheating women and 15% of men dared the adventure. The majority were faithful to their infidelity: nearly 60 percent of the respondents admitted their friends dating affair lasted longer than a month, and the rest longer than half a year.

Cheating Between Men and Women

2. Infidelity to Be Continued

Having cheated once, people will do again. Only 49% of men and women cheated once in a committed relationship. 17% of men cheated on their spouses before entering into a relationship, 12% played the trick twice, and 22% – many a time. Women are keeping pace with men: 20% betrayed their husbands twice, and 10% – three times. 15% cuckolded their spouses more than three times.

3. Reason for Cheating – Suppression of Sexual Desires

Boredom and silence – These are the most common reasons why a mature singles seeks pleasure outside the marriage. For example, just 31% of cheating wives and 25% of cheating husbands were willing to discuss their sexual desires. By the way, only 27% of female cheaters and 17% of male cheaters knew their partner’s sexual needs.

4. Well-wishers Will Always Reveal Infidelity

A chance, on its own, doesn’t play a small part in disclosing a secret. 44% of deceived men (46% of women) uncovered cheating by themselves.

- 30% of betrayed men (24% of women) learnt from their friends dating partners that adultery took place.
- Only 3% of men (6% of women) get the third-hand information.
- 21% of men (19% of women) spotted infidelity by chance.

5. An Infidelity Is Never Forgotten

The hopes that infidelity can be forgiven and forgotten failed.

43% of offended men (61% of offended women) were still not able to forgive their spouses in half a year after the affair became known. 11% of cheated men (20% of women) felt their love turning to hate in half a year after they experienced betrayal. It is impossible to get thoughts of infidelity out of head. But they can be prevented, doctor Beer claims.

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